A Time It Was, And What A Time It Was

Meet T-Dog.

Yummy

T-dog is 3of3′s best friend.  He’s Brazilian and has the world’s most perfectly beautiful accent.  He’s all boy.  He’s a goofball.  I love him almost as much as 3of3 does.  Almost.

Just Like The Movies

We play outside together every day from 4 until 5:30.  He’s taught 3of3 to say the letter L and she’s teaching him to ride a scooter.  They go spider killing together, they go on spooky walks together and they occasionally sit on park benches like bookends.

Getting To Know You

My next door neighbor, my best friend in Vancouver and the mother of my sons’ best friend, is moving away in August.  We are all heartbroken.  I almost looked into moving, too, because I honestly can’t imagine what I, and we, will do without her, and them.  But you know what?  Each door that closes opens a different window, and I think it’s 3of3′s turn to make an old friend.  

Happiness Is A Red Blowpop

And I think we’ve found him.

Complaint Department

  • Miss Grace


    I love these photos.

    • Mr Lady


      @Miss Grace, God, I do too. Thanks, love.

      • the other neighbour


        Ummm hello??? What about my kid? He’s worthy…even if he doesn’t have an accent!! And, btw, you’re stuck with us for the long haul…even without the favorite neighbour that we’re going to miss, too :( :(

        • Mr Lady


          @the other neighbour, the Phi has dibs on him, remember? She seems like the kind of girl you don’t want to fuck with. :)

          • the other neighbour


            @Mr Lady,

            You think? Poor kid…he doesn’t know what he’s in for! I think mine has already clued in…finally :)

  • yo


    i love her hair!! so posh.

    adorable kids. i love the black and white with the red.

    • Mr Lady


      @yo, I used to have hair like that, too. I also used to have a car without rotten fruit in it. Ah, the good old days.

  • Kori


    How cool is that? 3of3 and I have the same haircut. Though admittedly hers looks way better than mine. Sigh, story of my life.

    • Mr Lady


      @Kori, I won’t even try it anymore. Grungy hippie for me.

  • One Mom's Opinion


    They look so adorable together. Loosing friends is such a constant and a hard thing to get used too.

    • Mr Lady


      @One Mom’s Opinion, Don’t they? To bad she’s already betrothed to an adorable Chinese boy. My kid, she’s multi-cultural.

  • Jill


    What a sweet, sweet post! You are a Mr. Lady of many colors.

    • Mr Lady


      @Jill, what’s black and white and red all over? Me, after a day at the beach.

      Yes, I know I am not funny. :)

  • robina


    I love these pictures. I swear to God you could sell them!! I’m not sure which one I like best but I think it’s the second one where she is looking at him and her lips are so red!

    • Mr Lady


      @robina, the prelude to a kiss one? My fav.

  • Christy


    What great shots you got! They are adorable! Kids with accents are the cutest! I’m sorry about your friend moving–that’s always hard.

  • Darcie


    Adorable!!

  • Audubon Ron


    Pic 1. 3of3: Kiss me you fool. T-Dog: Huh?
    Pic 2. 3of3:
    Pic 3. T-Dog: Enough. I just kissed you. 3of3: Let me ask you a question. Shutup.
    Pic 4. T-Dog: Dang it, she got me again. 3of3: Yeah baby!

    • Mr Lady


      @Audubon Ron, she’d actually just put her hand on his knee and said, “TDog, I like you. All the moms? DEAD.

      • Audubon Ron


        @Mr Lady, There has to be a Valentine card in this set. So precious.

  • Shannon


    They’re the cutest little couple ever! Look at his big blue eyes! And her hair pretty much rules my life. I love this :)

    • Mr Lady


      @Shannon, that is the single greatest haircut in the history of the world. On me? Would’ve run $100. On her? $15.

      Youth really is wasted on the young.

  • Amazing Greis


    What sweet pictures.

  • Jeanette


    Oh that is so very cute!!

  • Becky


    All that I can say is that now I want a lolly pop.

    • Mr Lady


      @Becky, it makes me miss red food, for sure.

  • Robyn


    What’s with the tape? I want to see what happened next…!

    • Mr Lady


      @Robyn, NOTHING. NOTHING HAPPENED.

      Yet.

      She is my kid, after all. :)

  • Stephanie


    The best things in life are not things…….

  • rachel-asouthernfairytale


    Ok. See, I come here to laugh and to imagine the day that I can swing the pen of wit and semantics and awesome.. like you.
    And here you go with the gorgeous photographs and the sentiment and the AWESOME and now I’m all sappy and awwwwww’g all over my lappy.

    That last picture. Frameable.
    The sentiment: my heart just got all shuddery

    perfection

    • Mr Lady


      @rachel-asouthernfairytale, everything I have to say to this, for some inexplicable reason, is downright filthy.

      I really need to see you, I guess.

  • Momo Fali


    Gulp. I hate broken hearts. I hope hers doesn’t hurt too much when he leaves. Old friends are good to have around.

    • Mr Lady


      @Momo Fali, oh, he’s not leaving. The boys’ bestie is. TDog isn’t going anywhere.

      • Momo Fali


        Ohhhhh! My bad. (Hits self on the forehead.)

  • damaris


    In our side of the word it’s the opposite. I’m Brazilian and my son’s best friend (a girly gir) is moving away. We’re totally devastated.

    • Mr Lady


      @damaris, OUCH. He can borrow my girl in her place, okay?

  • Avitable


    I had a friend like that as a kid. I wish my parents had encouraged me to stay in touch with her, because I remember our time fondly, even as young as we both were. Plus, we totally played doctor.

    • Mr Lady


      @Avitable, my kids still email back and forth with their Denver buddies.

      Also, you are gross.

      And that’s why I love you.

      • Avitable


        @Mr Lady, that’s what little kids do!

  • OHmommy


    Photo #2…. omg, photo #2. She’s gonna be a heart breaker.

    • Mr Lady


      @OHmommy, yeah, we’re going to keep her and Jay really far apart.

  • George G Smith Jr


    This picture makes me kind of sad. I had a childhood best friend that was a girl and I swear to god, I hold her on this pedestal that every girl I date will never live up to that. First loves die hard….even when you’re young.

  • un


    love the photos love the writing

    • Mr Lady


      @un, aww, thank you!

  • Marla


    Those are adorable pictures…

  • Nature Lovin' Super Mama


    What is it with super cool girls always being friends with boys? I am in so much trouble when peanut gets older! lol:)

  • anne nahm


    They look adorable together. My best friend when I was little was a boy. Of course, my mom documented us mooning the camera. You are a way nicer mom.

  • Amo


    My oldest is in love with a set of sisters.

    I try and warn him, but I think he’s already loving that they fight over him. (Dude, he’s only 5 and they are 6 and 4…)

  • Tara R.


    They are both so beautiful! You did a fabulous job with the photos, love the second one.

  • Shawna


    Seriously, your daughter is so GORGEOUS… have you ever thought about getting her into modeling? (Not pageants… EWWWWWW). She’d be great. And I’m not one of those who thinks all kids are beautiful. I call a spade a spade (or an ugly kid an ugly kid… not out loud of course).

    Also, kudos on referencing a classic Simon and Garfunkle song — it always chokes me up when I hear it!!

  • bikerchick


    The second photo of 3of3 mackin’ on her buddy says everything you need to know about how precocious she is! (and how quick daddy has to start putting up the defense against the suitors that will be banging down your door.) She is yummy!

  • Nicki


    Aw, there’s nothing better than two little friends eating suckers together! I hope they’ll be friends forever!

  • BusyDad


    That’s it. I’m making myself a little girl.
    (as in making one FOR myself not making myself INTO one).

  • sassafrasanne


    what sweet little muffins.
    (no doubt sticky too)

  • TheExpatresse


    Awwwww. Gorgeous children.

    There is nothing sadder to me than having to separate two kids who are friends. Last time we moved, that was my first thought, “Oh! No! What about [insert kid friend name here]!?”

  • Tina@SendChocolate


    These pics are so wonderful. They give me great joy. Geez, you are a talented Mr. Lady.

    T.

  • Heidi


    I came to laugh and instead went awwwwwwww. They are priceless. I can only hope my kids (when I adopt/birth some) are as cute as her. I am glad to see the inocense (sp) of youth at a time when the world is becoming very grey for so many. It is like a beacon of hope. Keep coming with the killer pics!
    Heidi

  • Expat Mom


    Love these photos, especially the one where it looks like he´s explaining something to her. Accents on little kids are SOOOOOO cute, too! When I taught English here in Guatemala, I loved hearing the little first graders talking to me with their cute little accents. Too bad my kids speak both languages as natives.

  • DisgruntledMom


    Gorgeous pics. So sad that 3of3′s friend is moving.

  • Jaina


    Is it too soon to have images of them getting married? Cause DANG girl, they are one beautiful couple and I can just see how gorgeous they would be all growed up. (and this coming from the girl who absolutely can’t stand when people jump immediately to the idea of matrimony) Lol. I’m glad she has such a great friend. I’m sorry to hear about your friend and the boys’ friend moving though. You’ll have to have sleepover visits. :) (for the kids AND the grownups)

  • colleen


    she’s such a GIRL now. but I still miss that hair. I loooooved the hair. even if she is still too cute for words and still (despite @minizoeyjane) my favourite 3 year old.

  • Meaghan


    Gawd, those are cute kids. And amazing photos.

  • Jenny


    Her hair… his eyes… so sweet. But pleaseohplease- give us the deets on the roll of tape in her hand. :)

  • auntie


    good lord, those pictures are fabulous! i always think the pics of your daughter are just precious, but these with her bff? beyond words.

  • Wholesale Printing


    They look so cute together. :)
    I think they’ll make a good couple. Well, not now… maybe someday.

  • Color Printing


    Oh that’s sad that they’re moving! I’m sure you and your daughter especially, will miss the special moments you have all shared together. The memories will always last, and you will always have something good to hold on to. They look so cute together, I really love these photos!