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Sep112010

9/11

I grew up four hours away from New York, and every month or so someone from church would organize a drive up for church-related stuff. The world headquarters of my former cult de jour is located in Columbia Heights, so like good little kool-aid drinkers, we made pilgrimages to the Holy Land. The Brooklyn Bridge was our pearly gate. It was kind of awesome.

I couldn't imagine New York after the attacks, and I had to see it for myself, so six months after I hopped on a plane and spent a week in New York. My friend took me for a walk to Ground Zero, and I made it all of 3 minutes before I had to leave. It was still a huge hole in the ground, covered in debris, swarming with workers trying to sort out an unsortable sort of mess. Many of the buildings along our walk were still boarded up, still full of the ashes of things I can't bring myself to fathom.

We sat, my friend and I, on the roof of his apartment building every morning which sat right on the river's edge, the same rooftop he stood on watching smoke billow out of the towers, before he'd gotten on the subway, back off it, and walked into a war zone. The view spanning the the expanse of the Manhattan skyline. Every morning I'd sit there with my coffee and stare, trying to will those towers, those people, our brothers and sisters and nation, back. We took pictures which I intended to share this morning, but I just now realized that I've lost them.

So instead, I'm just going to share these, some photographs of my heart and soul, the greatest gift that Canada every gave me, the most gentle, kind, pure, honest, loving person I've ever had the privilege of loving. Someone who's taught me about life and the world and myself. Someone I've kick-boxed with and read from the Qur'an with. Someone who is the rule, not the exception, to her heritage and her religion. Someone I would trust beyond all others with my life and those of my children. And then I'll state simply that there is a difference between a person's choice and a people's beliefs, and pray that we as a nation are able to remember that when we speak of our fellow countrymen, our fellow humans, our brothers and sisters, be they Christian or Atheist or Flying Spaghetti Monsterers or Muslim.

You Say Goodbye I Say Hello


Updated: God issues press release. Says it much better than I ever could have. Showoff.

Reader Comments (13)

I'm so very glad you're here, Madam Writer.

And that press release may as well have been written by you...it's that good.

September 11, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterMs. Maxwell

Exactly. It's nice to find posts by people who don't hold an entire group of people responsible for the actions of a few. I am tired of reading anti-Muslim propaganda. It's amazing to me how people cannot differentiate that a minority does not stand for the majority...

September 11, 2010 | Unregistered Commentertracey

Love this. Love you.

And the photographs rock my socks off.

September 11, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterZak

Very well said ... I may have quoted you on my Facebook page ;)

September 11, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterErica

Best description of a woman ever. I only met her once and could read it from a million miles away.

Seriousness aside for one one-liner. I think the greatest thing Canada gave you was a vasectomy. Because y'all don't need six kids, as gorgeous as your offspring are. Imagine how many golf clubs you'd own then?! You're welcome.

September 11, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterZoeyjane

Totally awesome. Really.

September 11, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterKimmi aka TMWW
September 12, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterAshes Cup

This made my heart smile. Thank you.

September 12, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterKeyona

Well said.

September 12, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterOne Mom's Opinion

Great post kiddo. So nice to find something different on the topic.

September 13, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterBodaciousboomer

love this.

September 14, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterAimee Greeblemonkey

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September 17, 2010 | Unregistered Commenterdyixxhsf

I love the way you write.

September 20, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterMaria

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